كيف تجد العمل الذي تحبه؟

 السؤال الذي يطرحه كثير من الناس على العديد من علماءالنفس. والسؤال هو ما يلي: كيف يمكنني العثورعلى رسالتي في الحياة؟ بعض علماء النفس يحددون المعايير المعينة. يقول البعض ، استمر في المجال حيث نجحت. أو استمع إلى قلبك. ومع ذلك، يوجد هناك عنصور واحد مهم و بدونه ستفقد الاتجاه. اذن كيف تجد العمل الذي تحبه؟ الصعوبة هي أن الكثير من الناس يعتمدون على رأي الآخرين. هناك العديد من الأشخاص الذين لايعيشون حياة من أجل سعادتهم ولكن من أجل سعادة الآخرين ، من أجل الموافقة على تصرفاتهم من قبل أشخاص آخرين. يقول بعض الناس ، اريد الحصول على هذا و لكنني لن أفعل  شيء يتعارض مع إرادةعائلتي. المشكلةهي إما أن تذهب اتجاه نفسك أو تذهب ضد نفسك. إما أن تَتَبِع أحلامك إما أن تذهب ضدها. ليس هناك الطريق الثالث. ماذا يجب أن يفعله الشخص الذي غالبًا ما يخون رغباته وأحلامه ولايتبِعها ومع ذلك  يحقق رغبات وتوقعات الآخرين؟ كيف يمكن مثل هذا الشخص أن يجد العمل الذي يحبه إذا يستطيع أن يخون نفسه بسهولة وبالتالي ، العمل الذي يحبه سيأتي حتماً في حياته ، لأنه يريده بشدة. إذا تريد أن العمل الذي تحبه يدخل حياتك، فعليك أن تفهم أولاً أن يجب عليك أن تستمع إلى نفسك. بادِئ ذي بِدء ، يجب أن تَتَبِع أحلامك. هذا هو الصدق. و هذا مهم. هذا هوالشرط الأساسي و الوحيد حتى يجدك العمل الذي ترغب فيه. إذا تتبع آراء الآخرين ، فلن يجدك ما تحب. في بعض الأحيان يعترف شخص، نعم ، في هذه الحالة ، أطَعَت رأي أسرتي ، في تلك الحالة لم أتصرف كما أردت أنا حتى لا أهين شخصًا ما. وفي العديد من الحلات الأخرى، اختار حل الوَسَط. وعلى أي حال، يجب ألا يؤدي حل وسط إلى تدميرك. لسوء الحظ ، فإن التنزلات تُدَمِرك شخصيا. الحل الوسط هو عندما يصبح الجميع سعداء. الحل الوسط ليس عندما تتنازل عن شيء ما وتعاني منه بعد ذلك. إذا لا تستطيع الاستماع إلى نفسك. إذا لا تتمكن من الدفاع عن حقك في حياتك الخاصة ، فإذا عن اي العمل الذي تحبه تتحدث عنه؟ كيف هو سوف يجدك؟ الشرط الأول حتى تأتي رسالتك إليك هو أنك يجب أن تكون دائمًا الدعم لنفسك ، وأن تستمع إلى ما تريد انت، مما يعني أن أحيانًا ستقول “نعم” لنفسك و “لا” للآخرين.

How to find your labour of love?

The question which many people pose to many psychologists is the following: How can I find my calling. Some psychologists define certain criteria. Some say, see in which area you’ve succeeded most. Or, listen to your heart. However, there is one important detail without which nothing will go. This is a simple detail. How to find a labour of love? The issue is that many people depend on the opinion of others. There are many people who don’t live life for their own pleasure but for pleasure of other people, for approval of their actions by other people. Some people say, do whatever you won’t, but I won’t do anything which goes against the will of my family. The issue is that either you go for yourself either you go against yourself. Either you follow your dreams either you go against them. There is no third way. So what should a person do, who often betrays his own wishes, dreams and doesn’t follow them. However, he pleases the wishes and expectations of other people. How can such a person find a labour of love at all if he can easily betray himself, and, therefore, his labour of love, which will come inevitably into his life, because he wants it so badly. If you want your labour of love to come into your life, you should understand that first of all, you should listen to yourself. First of all, you should follow your dreams. This is honest. This is important. This is the only essential condition so that your labour of love finds you. If you follow the opinions of others, then your labour of love won’t find you. Sometimes a person confessed that, yes, indeed, in this situation I obeyed the opinion of my family, in that situation I didn’t act as I wanted to so that not to insult someone. And in many other situations I’ve also opted for compromise.however, compromise should not destruct you. Unfortunately, the compromises destruct you as a personality. Compromise is when two people are happy. Compromise is not when you’ve conceded on something and then suffer from it. If I cannot listen to myself. If I cannot defend my right to my own life, so what labour of your life are you talking about? How come it will find you? To put simple, you won’t even notice it. The first condition so that your mission comes to you is that you should always be for yourself, listen to what you want, which sometimes means saying “yes” to yourself and “no” to others.

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